It's also worth understanding that the 37 grams of "Defense Wound Mass" VIRGEL predicts for a 230 grain .44 wadcutter fired at modest velocities from your 629 is in the same league as the 37 grams of wound mass VIRGEL predicts for the vaunted "FBI Load" or for a premium 147 grain 9mm JHP. As far as "Defense Wound Mass" is concerned, VIRGEL puts all three in the same ballpark.
If you want much more than that from your .44, you'll need a different bullet and more velocity. If you want much more than that from a .38 Special or a 9mm you''re out of luck.