Mistakes can and do happen. Case in point, the following pic;
The center piece of brass is what a .308 winchester looks like after being fired in a .280 rifle. It happened in a Remington 7400, the rifle survived undamaged. My nephews attention is somewhat less than it should be, he was loading from a box of loose shells that had both .280 and .308 in it, didn't notice.
I'd say you didn't notice a double charge. Deeper seating does raise pressure, but not to the point of blowing a case like that. I'm not familiar with titegroup, is 5.0 a max charge? If not then a slightly deeper boolit would not do what happened here.
Chambering a SWC in a .45 is iffy in some pistols. My SA 45 will not chamber reliably with plated 200 SWC. Never tried PB SWC boolits.