I first started casting & reloading the 9mm round a few weeks ago. Before I started I read all I could specifically about the 9 here, so I was well prepared. I bought a Lyman set of dies, and only used the resizing die, and the seating die. I also bought a separate taper crimp die (I bought a Lee, but NOT the FCD, just a taper crimp die, it was less than $10.00). For expanding the brass I used an expander designed for the 38 Special round which expanded the brass much more than I imagine it would have been expanded by the expander in the 9mm die set I bought. For a boolit I got the Lee 105gr SWC that's really designed for 38Spec/357Mag but also works well in the 9mm. I cast my boolits out of Lyman #2 alloy (90/5/5). Besides the boolits being relatively hard (around 15BHN) I think the Lee 105gr boolit is short enough so all of it is above where the brass starts to get thicker, so the brass had less chance of swaging my boolits smaller.
The first time I took my 9mm cast boolit reloads to the range I really thought I was going to be in for lots of barrel scrubbing when I got home, but I was really surprised that when I took out the barrel there wasn't a bit of lead in it at all! What all this means is that it's totally possible to get a leading free load from a 9mm. I just happened to get really lucky that I got it on my first attempt! I almost forgot, I loaded those rounds with 5gr of HP-38 (AKA W231) which isn't a light load, but isn't a max load either. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't workout the first time out, you will find the right load that will do what you want it to!