I am with Mike on the Ruger P90. I had one and hated it. Only owned it about a month before it was sold to fund my Delta Elite.
But, I do like the XD's I have shot. I gotta think an XDm in 45 ACP is in my future. And if I can find funds and a smith, it might become a 10mm.
Mike, I will PM you later when I am near my load data. In addition, my full-size jammed regularly during the first 200-300 rounds. During that time I polished the heck outta the feed ramp, replaced the factory recoil spring with a 22lb wolf spring, added +15 Wolf mag springs, and started storing all the mags loaded full with 15 rounds. Since then I have had no issues. and am over 2000 rounds now.